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Sexual Positions
- Anal Toys -
What are anal toys?
Anal toys are simply adult toys that are used to stimulate the nerve endings in the rectum.
As children many of us may have learned that the rectum is a dirty, forbidden place. What many of us did not learn is that the anus is an erogenous zone for both men and women. So it comes as no surprise that anal toys have a certain stigma attached to them.
The rectum contains a collection of nerves which are used in the waste excretion process. Stimulating these nerves produces deep, pleasurable sensations. Anal toys provide a unique opportunity to explore these nerves and prostate stimulation. The prostate gland is associated with the nerves that trigger orgasm in the male and when it is massaged, the results can be electrifying.
How do I use anal toys?
Anal toys are a safe form of enjoyment provided you use common sense and take the necessary precautions.
Whenever using anal toys, make sure you:
- Use lubricant each and every time
- Always use toys with a flared base or handle
- If you are sharing your anal toys, cover the toy with a condom
- Be gentle and try to follow the natural curve of the rectum
- If there is any pain, remove the toy and try again when you're more relaxed
- Relax, relax, relax
- NEVER insert anything sharp into your rectum
How do I shop for anal toys ?
When purchasing anal toys, examine what it is you want from the toy. Don’t think you can fit something huge up your rectum if you’ve never tried to before. Look for anal toys which suit your lifestyle and desires. Be wary of products which could be potentially dangerous unless you know how to use them. These include fisting devices, spiked dildos and hard dildos. Such products can tear or puncture the rectum and colon if not used properly, and in the case of loosely connected anal beads, become lodged in the anus and have to be surgically removed. Look for anal toys that are sturdy, soft to the touch, pliable, rounded and come with an enlarged flange or handle at the end. When relaxed you'd be surprised how easily toys can get lost in the anal cavity.
Type of stimulation
The type of stimulation you want is a major determinant when buying an anal toy. For those who want to engage in anal intercourse by using an anal toy strapped on to a partner, try using a strap-on dildo. Butt plugs and other anal toys (used for masturbation and anal stimulation) often have ridges which further stimulate the nerves in the anus. When shopping for a butt plug make sure that it has a wide base which will not allow it to slip into your rectum. Look carefully at what the plug is made from and its shape. There are some plugs which profess to follow the natural curve of your rectum but since each body is a bit different you may wish to avoid any plug that enters the body more than 4 inches. Try to find a plug that is made of a somewhat soft material that will bend while it is in your rectum. Silicone and jelly butt plugs are usually a good place to start.
Another product which slowly stimulates the anus are anal beads. Sometimes referred to as "Oriental Love Beads" this anal toy looks like a bunch of marbles connected by a string. These beads are inserted into the rectum and are then slowly removed and pleasure arrives as each bead is pulled out of the opening. Some people enjoy having the beads removed at the point of climax. For men the stimulation of the prostate during orgasm can be extremely gratifying. When shopping for love beads make sure that the string connecting the beads is strong. Usually nylon cord is the best material for the beads. Additionally, you may find that the beads have some rough edges. These edges must be smoothed out before they are used to minimize cuts to the anus.
Other toys work as well
Toys which are thought to be for vaginal stimulation can be extremely satisfying when used anally. Electric vibrators can give intense stimulation to the outer regions of the anus which are very receptive to stimulation. Dildos are also generally acceptable for anal use. When shopping for a safe dildo intended for anal use, remember to look for a product with a wide bottom to prevent it from becoming lodged in the rectum. Also remember to find a product which is soft and pliable, to put the least amount of stress on the delicate tissue lining the rectum.
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